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My Dad
Written by Randa Fares Youssef   
Thursday, 07 May 2009 13:07
Mekhael Elias Fares

Beautiful Dad

Thursday, April 16, 2009 at 1:53pm

I I want to talk about my dad. It is hard for me to talk about him to "real" people; I hate to feel weak and emotional - it tarnishes my public image of the strong stoic Randa! So I will talk about him to y'all as long as it stays in cyberspace!

I have been thinking - probably obsessing - about my dad. Want to look at his pix everyday; see his face in almost everything.

I go and read and re-read his diaries on Kaftoun.com. My brother Jihad and I saved ALL his letters - they are actually more of diaries. He would write everyday then mail to us what he wrote on a regular basis. So we knew everything to know about Kaftoun and the family - the weather, what's growing, who is sick, who is visiting, who was born, who died, everything....

Mekhael Elias Fares

Few months before his death... in his usual chair at the kitchen table.

When it became very hard for him to write, he started being ashamed of his hand-writing (swear was still better than mine!) but if you know my dad, you would know that he was a perfectionist...

So, he stopped sending us letters and started writing in his "blue" agenda. Jihad is scanning all and uploading on Kaftoun.com. I still have to upload Dad's letters to me and I - Daddy's little girl - have A LOT.


April 17, 2009

Yesterday, after I wrote the note above, I went to work. I sat beside a guy who did not look quite right and people were staring, and so I thought GREAT a drunk so early in the morning. Then I noticed that he is fidgeting a lot and so I thought he may start getting ugly. Then I noticed that he is twitching - he was on my right side and I tried to read my book and just forget about him. I couldn't; I kept sneaking looks at him from behind my dark shades. I noticed the involuntary movements of his face; his legs were twitching and he would move them a lot; his hands were kind of shaking but more of twitching and he would put them under his knees, hold them together, under his cheek and lean on one side as if trying to sleep..... and it was then that I started to cry.

This guy was probably 60 years old, dressed in work clothes with his cute lunch bag and was going to work while suffering from Parkinson's ( okay, granted I am not a physician and I don't have results of his medical tests or anything, but I knew it - he had Parkinson's.)

I wanted to hold his hands like I used to do with Dad until his hands would stop shaking. Of course, I could not presume to do that with this stranger on a bus in a strange city! But I could not stop - kept sneaking looks at him until he left the bus about 30 minutes later and I kept crying until I got to work.

Last Updated on Saturday, 04 July 2009 02:29
 

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